We are on the cusp of the holiday season. It’s a special time of year but sadly, it is often freighted with challenges. Responsibilities metastasize and usually include some combination of peeling potatoes; coring and slicing apples; ironing table cloths; Christmas shopping; writing cards; and putting up decorations. Obligations such as attending workplace or family parties can feel like a burden. The expectation (sometimes forced) to have fun might backfire and instead cause you to feel inadequate if you’re unable to get into a festive mood. Humbug!
Despite the bright lights and parties, the stress level for most of us reaches an annual high at this time of year. The Thanksgiving – Christmas – New Year’s Eve axis can overwhelm the best of us. It’s easy to feel lonely, or even like a failure. Business owners and Freelancers may be faced with the realization that income projections were not reached, adding to the anxiety.
What is the antidote? I suggest that a two or three-week out-of-town vacation is the ideal remedy. Other than buying and writing cards (which can be done while away) and taking care of a short gift list, all other stress-inducing elements could be diplomatically sidestepped. Those unable to budget the time and money to de-camp to the Bahamas are encouraged to put into motion a comprehensive stress management program.
Regardless of the season, stress is a condition that spares no age cohort or socioeconomic stratum. School children become stressed over homework and piano lessons. Their parents become stressed as a result of a long work commute or increased job responsibilities. Please know that there is good stress, too—buying a home, going away to college, getting married and starting a new job bring into your life stress that emanates from positive events.
The sources of stress will vary, but the need to manage those stressors and the related hassles and anxiety is constant. Giving some thought to how and why the stressful situation occurs is Step One of your stress management program and brainstorming possible changes that might remove or diminish the stress is Step Two. Improving one’s ability to manage stress by developing coping skills and learning to relax is Step Three.
Stress management is a multi-disciplinary process that includes managing time, adequate sleep, good nutrition, exercise, anger management and relaxation techniques. Next week, I’ll return with some specific suggestions.
Happy Thanksgiving and thanks for reading,